Is it deer resistant?

Yes

Hoary Mountainmint is deer resistant.

Pycnanthemum incanum

Deer: Rarely
Height: 6 ft (1.8 m)
Spread: 4 ft (1.2 m)
Zones: 4–9
Light: Full sun

Perennial
Wildflower

Hoary Mountainmint (Pycnanthemum incanum)

Photo: Patrick Alexander from Las Cruces, NM · CC0

Also called Mountain Mint, Silverleaf Mountain-Mint

Perennial Pycnanthemum

More details

Light: Full sun, Partial shade
Water: Low, Medium
Type: Perennial, Wildflower
Maintenance: Low
Bloom: Summer
Foliage: Deciduous
Features: Drought tolerant, Edible, Flowering, Native
Best uses: Naturalized, Woodland

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